The Ultimate Therapy ~
Healing the Drama of the Inner Judge and Victim Child
.......with Allan Hardman
.........Thursdays July 17 ~ August 28
.........6:45 ~ 9:15 pm
.........at the Songbird Center, Cotati, CA
You've done your therapy, reading, meditating, workshoping, studying, and talking about your issues...and yet do you continue to feel socially uncomfortable, dissatisfied with your relationships, or generally unhappy in your life?
Perhaps the reasons are deeper or more illusive than the solutions you have been seeking. In this series of 7 evenings Allan is offering his simple and revolutionary roadmap to personal freedom and true happiness.
> Become aware of the fearful voices in your head and the roles they play
> Learn skills and tools for transforming the lies of those voices into the truth
> Identify the strategies of childhood that have become the adult personality
> Create a new voice in the drama to heal it from the inside
> And embark on a life's journey of self-love, creativity, and freedom
DATES:
July 17 - The Judge. The critic voice in your head
July 24 - The Victim Child. Who the judge is talking to.
July 31 - The Strategy Children. Protect the Victim Child.
August 7 - The Spiritual Warrior. Brings true love to the Victim.
August 14 - The Truth About the Judge. A scared little boy.
August 21 - The Return of the Magical Child. The exile is over.
August 28 - The Joydancer. The joy of the reunion of the inner family IN love.
And they all lived happily ever after....Dancing In Joy With Life.
Space in this class is limited.
Make a reservation at Joydancer now to ensure your place:
(707) 528-1271 / allanh@sonic.net
Cost: $25.00 per evening
$150 for 7 in advance.
Location:
Songbird Community Healing Center,
8297 Old Redwood Hwy, Cotati, CA 94931
The Ultimate Therapy
Healing the Drama of the Inner Judge and Victim Child
Allan
Hardman has been exploring the “drama of the inner
judge and victim” for over twenty years—in the
inner worlds of clients and apprentices, and in his own
life. Here, Allan represents the culmination of that exploration,
and the latest refinements of his awareness, expertise,
and tools for healing this inner drama.
We
came into this world free of judgment and fear; however
it wasn’t long before we learned we weren’t
good enough to always meet the standards and conditions
of our parents, caregivers, and others that would assure
us our supply of love and safety. Whether your childhood
experience was gentle, critical, or violent, the message
was the same: “You are not good enough to deserve
and receive our unconditional love and acceptance.”
The
outer judge became a living voice in your own mind and probably
persists until now. That judge berates and criticizes the
child within, demanding a perfection that can never be attained.
The child within is a victim of the judgment, and tries
to get it right for the judge. The illusory reward is an
unconditional love and acceptance that can never be earned
by being good enough.
As
adults we learn to pretend we are okay-- we use strategies,
wear masks, and play roles to deny this background drama
of judgment and rejection playing out
in our minds.
We
can free ourselves from this drama with one simple experience:
Self-love and acceptance. But how do you get there, how
can you heal this inner drama, release your strategies,
and what is life like after you have learned to love and
accept yourself just the way you are?
