The Toltec Path
and Wisdom ~
(for more wisdom, buy Allan's book on the left)
Toltecs, Ancient and Modern
Are you a Toltec?
Perfect Dream — pdf
This is a "must read" for everyone who
wants to understand the deepest gift of the Toltec
Becoming a Toltec Dream Master
We awaken to the truth that "reality"
is all a dream and we are the dreamers.
The Reluctant Apprentice
The story of Allan Hardman’s early apprenticeship
with Miguel Ruiz.
Light and the Smokey Mirror
The light is the living messenger, carrying the
message of creation to you.
Allan’s summary of these important tools
from Miguel Ruiz
Toltec Warrior Remembers
To be Responsible is to know that our beliefs
create our reality
The Dreamtime Mitote begins with a ceremony at
sunset to hook this ray of the sun
and the Evolution of the Human Dream
Throughout history, humans have wanted to know
about the future
About Conscious Relationships ~
New Relationship ~ Change
Five Agreements to Make Love Come True
This is the heart of Allan's explorations
of The New Relationship, and will be a book in the
Challenge of Intimacy
The first in a series of articles about Conscious
I would like to redefine intimacy as “our willingness
to be open and present and share ourselves with others.”
Emotional Intimacy with Ourselves
We create all our relationships based on the needs
they fill-- not a very romantic notion.
Relationships Created From Needs
Do you want to know the reason why so many people complain that they are in relationship with emotionally unavailable partners?
Five Ways to Avoid Intimacy
The intimacy we crave in relationships, is, at the same time, our biggest fear. It is not surprising that many of us have created strategies to avoid it.
The Lie of Love
There is nothing you must do to earn love, and no dance you need to do to keep it. Love is not a commodity; it is the truth of who and what you are.
Love is in the Air
There is a feeling that most all humans are missing and searching for; itís the feeling of peace from knowing they are okay.
The Impotent Hero ~ abridged
Who taught you what it means to be a man?
Impotent Hero ~ pdf
Impotent Hero ~ html
Healing the Wounded Masculine
Allan’s chapter from the Anthology “The
Heart of Healing" describes the cause and healing
of the guilt felt by many men for being men. A MUST
READ for men, and the women who love them.
Speaking an Emotional Language
If you want to be better at expressing or sharing your feelings, learn to be very aware of your language.
Watch this space for more articles about Conscious Relationship!
Other Articles ~
Real Tips for Saving Your Marriage
Guaranteed to breathe new life and energy into your marriage
I believe that we are born as Love.
Telling Ourselves The Truth
We don't have to lie to ourselves anymore, but
it takes courage.
Snake on the Road: A Fairy Tale
One day, a long time ago, in the Time of Innocence.
Gentle Freedom of Being a Nincompoop
Ahh, what freedom, what a simple gentle freedom.
Care to join me?
About a little girl and a little boy and the birth
of the Judge
Storyteller as a Terrorist
The Storytellers knew it was their job to teach
you their stories.
Written after 9/11.
Thoughts on Violence
For many people, the worst violence lives inside
their own minds.
Life of Jesus and Our Healing Journey
Jesus denies every lie the devil uses to seduce
from his Divinity. From a Christmas sermon by Allan
Perhaps you know that it has not actually worked
well to try to control your life.